Deposits and cash gifts

These are my favorite methods for accepting deposits and cash gifts:

Net-A-Porter or Etsy gift cards: Send these to

Venmo: Info available upon request

Prepaid gift cards (such as Vanilla Visa): These can be purchased with cash! Buy these at any store such as CVS, Target, etc. Send me a photo of the receipt, and break the card out of the package and also photograph the front and back.

CashApp: Info available upon request



Physical gifts are always appreciated!

Gift Cards/e-Gift Cards

I adore gift cards. Virtual gift cards can be sent to my email address (shaeashbury @ 

Bouqs or Petals by Pedal (flower delivery)

Net-A-Porter (au courant clothing, shoes, accessories, lingerie and beauty)

Freolic (my favorite ethically made lace lingerie)

Etsy (handmade and vintage treasures)

Bordelle (scandalous UK-made lingerie)

Pleasurements (mind-boggling array of lingerie and toys)

Revolve, Carbon38, or Bandier (activewear) 

Astor Wines and Spirits (NYC’s premier booze emporium)

Aire Ancient Baths (baths and spa services)

Mailing gifts

Established friends are more than welcome to send me a gift through the mail. Message me for my discreet mailing address.