Gifts are never expected, but greatly appreciated. And they make us both smile.

Tokens of your esteem

I would be thrilled to receive dark chocolates from Jacques Torres, La Maison Du Chocolat or Vosges, a bottle of wine, champagne, gin or tequila, or lingerie, clothing, or accessories. My shoe size is 7, my dress size 4.

For lingerie, I wear a 34A or 32B bra (or Small) and a size Medium garter and bottom. My favorite lingerie brands are Fleur of England, Bordelle, Fleur du Mal, Marjolaine and Loveday London. If you enjoy browsing, Pleasurements is a wonderful website with a wide variety of brands and fast and reliable shipping.

Gift Cards/e-Gift Cards

I adore gift cards. Virtual gift cards can be sent to my email address (shaeashbury @ protonmail.com). 


Net-A-Porter (au courant clothing, shoes, accessories, lingerie and beauty)

Amazon (books, beauty elixirs and lots more)

Whole Foods (my go-to source for Shae Fuel)

Etsy (handmade and vintage treasures)

Eataly (amazing pasta, cheese, wine and other Italian deliciousness)

Kiehl's (all natural beauty products)

Savor Spa (skincare)

Bordelle (scandalous UK-made lingerie)

Pleasurements (mind-boggling array of lingerie and toys)

Online wishlist

My Net-A-Porter wishlist is updated regularly with exquisite objects of my affection. Message me for my discreet mailing address.


Within every girl is the possibility of arousing emotion. Without emotion there is no beauty.