Deposits and cash gifts

These are my favorite methods for accepting deposits and cash gifts:

Net-A-Porter or Etsy gift cards: Send these to

Venmo: Info available upon request

Prepaid gift cards (such as Vanilla Visa): These can be purchased with cash! Buy these at any store such as CVS, Target, etc. Send me a photo of the receipt, and break the card out of the package and also photograph the front and back.

CashApp: Info available upon request


Tokens of your esteem

Here are a few of my favorite things. Maybe you love them too? Gifts are never expected, but always appreciated.

Gift Cards/e-Gift Cards

I adore gift cards. Virtual gift cards can be sent to my email address (shaeashbury @ 

Bouqs (flower delivery)

Net-A-Porter (au courant clothing, shoes, accessories, lingerie and beauty)

Freolic (my favorite ethically made lace lingerie)

Etsy (handmade and vintage treasures)

Bordelle (scandalous UK-made lingerie)

Pleasurements (mind-boggling array of lingerie and toys)

Revolve, Carbon38, or Bandier (activewear) 

Mailing gifts

Established friends are more than welcome to send me a gift through the mail. Message me for my discreet mailing address.